02.04.08

I’m Falling Apart

Posted in City life, atlanta, escapades, football, love tagged , , , , , at 8:07 am by Lina

I know I posted Friday that I had plans to stay at home and spend quality time with my man. Well, plans have a way of changing on me when I think I have them set straight. All day Friday, I had the foreboding sense that I was getting sick because my nose and head were feeling stuffy since I got up that morning. When, I closed up shop that afternoon, I went back to my apartment to drink lots of water and rest until Scott got home.

I had just unlocked the door to my apartment when my cell rang. It was Scott telling me to be dressed up and ready to go out by the time he got home. Just great, I thought to myself. The one evening I actually don’t mind being a couch potato, his feet get itchy. So, I dolled myself up in a mid-thigh-length swishy black and red cocktail dress with my favorite black heels- no too high but not flat either.

When Scott arrived, I could tell he thoroughly enjoyed my hard work. Quickly changing into black slacks and a crisp white shirt, he dodged my questions. When he turned to me, arms outstretched for me to evaluate his look, I shook my head, unbuttoned the top two buttons of his shirt and ruffled his dirty blond hair, which has gotten thicker than its buzz cut when we first met. “Where are we going?” I repeated for the millionth time in the past 30 minutes.

Instead of answering, he just kissed the top of my head, grabbed our coats, and pushed me outside and into a taxi.

Here’s the kicker to my weekend: Scott took me to a dance club. No, it wasn’t like those clubs that have College Night and such. This one was a ways out the metro area and entirely secluded. It was a ballroom dancing club. The doorman embraced Scott, saying, “Wondered when you’d come by and see me, Scat.” He didn’t call him Bro, or Scottie, or Scottie-Boy like I do, but rather, Scat. Hm, odd. “Who’s this beauty that you’ve conned into coming with you?”

I stuck out my hand and introduced myself, all while staying stuck to Scott’s side like a bur on a dog. Once we were inside, Scott got us a little table closest to the enormous oak dance floor and went to get some wine. I sat there like a deer in headlights trying to take it all in and almost screamed when an older man touched my shoulder. “A pretty woman like you shouldn’t be watching alone, she should be dancing in the midst of it.”

He took my hand and guided me through a particularly nice mambo number. Who knew that I could dance so gracefully? I caught Scott’s eye for a second before the handsome man with the salt and pepper hair twirled me. He was grinning like no other man I had ever seen smile.

The stranger took me back to Scott at the end of the song and said, “That was a true pleasure dancing with you my dear. Keep this gem safe, Scat.”

“Who was that?” I asked after I drank half my glass of wine.

“Jon owns this place and a popular restaurant in the middle of the city. His son and I were dorm-mates in college, and I got hooked on this place.”

I looked around at the warm atmosphere that subtly reminded you of a lost culture that was sadly never going to be found again. I looked up at him with a challenging glint in my eye. “How good are you Twinkle-Toes?”

I admitted defeat around one in the morning. As the night went on, the music became more and more heavy, laced with songs of lust and passion. By the time we left, the hair around my neck was sweaty and my entire body was blush red.

We went back to his apartment, shared a piece of cheesecake and collapsed into the bed.

By the way, I am sick now. I blame the stupid cold weather. Scott blames me not wearing a jacket enough. But, he did make me chicken and rice soup and is being my nurse.  :)   I am still sore from dancing, stuffed up with sinus trouble, losing my voice because of the dag-blasted coughing, and not paying a bit of attention to the Super Bowl…Except the commercials. I love Superbowl commercials because they don’t make me want to buy a thing, unlike what the ad people seem to think. Hope everybody else’s weekend was good. For the record, I love you Scott, but given the chance, Tom Brady would so be mine. :D    Forget about Giselle… well never-mind, it’s Giselle of all models!

01.05.08

Shut Up And Kiss Me

Posted in Alabama, Dawgs, Drama, escapades, football, holidays, love, relationships tagged , , , , , at 1:11 am by Lina

  I just got back to Georgia early yesterday morning, so now I get to write about my drunken actions in Alabama.

  Scott had us a room booked in this great hotel in town, which we spent time testing the room if you know what I mean  ;)  . Arriving to his parents’ house fashionably late, we mingled and he introduced me to tons of his friends and close companions since forever. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside to know that he managed to make all his married “bros” extremely jealous with me.

My dress went over better than I would have ever expected. Let’s just say Scott was the one that made us late to the party and leave it at that.

The dress linked in my previous post plus a pair of black heels made me feel very self-confident. So confident that I drank way too much and danced like a fool when nobody else was. Thankfully, all the other guests were half in the hole also. It was nice. Booze, great hour devours, great company, plenty of talking junk and cutting up, and even the occasional corner couple making out was the equation of a perfect evening.

Just before the countdown began, a very drunk Scott found me hiding and checking my email and such. He began rambling on about something, and he wouldn’t shut up. He was talking so much that when the ball dropped, I had to grab him and kiss him to shut him up. It turned into a even better kiss. Then, he mentioned ringing the new year in… in style. That night also reminded me why I never wear short skirts anymore; it’s a good thing Scott was the only one who has eyes for me or there would be bloodshed. “Alpha-male” my behind.

Yesterday was my recovery day. Meaning, I spent the day in Scott’s with a bottle of aspirin and a bottle of water. Poor thing had to go to work; he looked like someone had built a landfill over his grave. Today, however, he was bright-eyed and annoying all over again. He told me that his resolution was to be open to love and commitment, plus a few that he was keeping secret. Eeek!

Speaking of resolutions, here are mine: (so far)

1.) Be more open to new ideas.
2.) Kick out my squatting roommate. (He’s not paying any rent, and he is making my nice apartment into a place FEMA wouldn’t even touch)
3.) Quit spending all my money on books and designer clothing.
4.) Quit stealing Halley’s clothes.
5.) Don’t let Scott get me fat with his fabulous cooking!
6.) Go to the gym and the park more often.
7.) Get more sleep. (I make this one every year, and never occasionally achieve)
8.) Do not let past relationships and friends cloud my vision and hurt my present relationship.

2007 was a dramatic roller coaster and sure did take its toll on me. Nonetheless, I will learn from past mistakes and manage my life a little better. At least I know I’m growing as a person. Who’d have thought a relationship would do that to me after all these years? :)

 *By the way, as an afterthought (because I don’t know how I managed to forget), Dawgs kicked islander ass, and I got to cheer and whoop in front of a bunch of Auburn fans. OH YEAH!

12.30.07

Rockin’ Out Like It’s 1989!

Posted in Alabama, City life, dogs, family, football, holidays, love, relationships, work tagged , , , , , at 6:55 am by Lina

Well, I was only 11 in 1989, but 1999 was not the best year for me.

Scott and I are leaving to go to his family’s house tomorrow. We would’ve left today, but I couldn’t leave the store on one of the busiest Saturdays of the year. We’ll be staying at a hotel near his parents’home because I insisted and his relatives will be there in force… again. They better stock up real good, because I will be drinking myself under the table during the FOUR days that we are spending in Alabama.

I’ve packed all my jeans, none of my slacks or designer heels, and a dress for New Year’s Eve that Scott hasn’t seen yet. I imagine his jaw will be somewhere near the floor when he sees it. After Scott told me that the New Year’s Eve party was more than just family and that I needed to dress up that one night, I spent all night online looking for the perfect party dress. He woke up one time during that night, and once he figured out what I was doing, murmured, “I love your legs, honey.”

Then, I found it… Of course, I took the contrasting camisole out because I wanted to make an impression. Part of my black strapless bra will be visible in the front, but it’s not in the back… I tried it on and checked when I first got it. Let’s just say it definitely shows off my legs- even if they aren’t as tan as they should be. (no bending over either)

Georgia is going to stay with Halley and Edward until I get back. Her and Wednesday get along so well that it’s scary. Wednesday likes to act like a puppy to around Georgia, but she acts like the mama around me. My dogs are conspiring against me, I know it.

Shit!! I just realized that I’ll have to watch the Sugar Bowl in a room full of Auburn fans. Just great… I’ll have to bite my tongue and drink beer. Although I know he is secretly a firm UGA fan, he went to Auburn and has some loyalties there too. That’s why we are spending a few days apart when the time rolls around when the two teams finally play each other again. That’s if we’re still dating come football season next year.

Must remain optimistic. Must not look for flaws where none present themselves. Ohm…  :)

I’ll post as soon as we get back from Alabama. Until then, Happy New Year’s too all. Seen you in 2008!

11.25.07

Georgia Kicks A$$ (31-17)

Posted in Dawgs, escapades, football, random, thoughts tagged , , , , , , , , at 9:13 pm by Lina

I’m extremely tired and really hungover, so this post will be short. I’ll just start with this

GO DAWGS!!!!  GEORGIA TECH SUCKS!!!!

*sighs* I’m good now. As a graduate from UGA, I hold on very tightly to my Dawg loyalty. Heck, I dated a starter (who shall remain nameless). Anyway, I went to the game Saturday decked out in all my Georgia gear, and warm to boot. After drinking and partying in the parking lot like I was a student again, I raucously enjoyed the game. It was awsome! Interceptins, penalties, and flying men, oh my!

It was a great game. However, I was glad when it was over. I don’t think I’d have any nails left to bite after a few of the touchdowns Tech made. It was nice to be with my friends that i lost track of after college, but before we all got drunk, all I heard were stories about their jobs and their families. Good God the pictures these people carry around with them!

I didn’t have any drama to deal with yesterday. The store was even closed on account of the game. (yes i am one of those fans) Stafford, if you weren’t such a young’n, I’d kiss you. Massaqoui too. Richt, I’d kiss you if you weren’t married. (wife is beautiful btw) All is right in the world, EXCEPT for the stupid fact that we won’t be in the SEC championship game.

I know I talk a lot of shit, but I’m sorry Gailey, I hope Tech doesn’t fire you.

The Dawgs need to work on their rushing (meaning don’t run smack into the middle of the group- skirt the edges like the opposing team does).

Alas, we’re on a 7-year streak! Hope we make it to 10.

One more time: kick-ass game georgia *wipes tear* makes me proud